Monthly Gathering—November 2006
The Art of Being Smart
Some people have lots of book smarts but no people smarts; others are just the opposite. Society makes provisions for those among us who are shy of intellect, but barely recognizes the challenges that arise from being above average. Consider the workplace, where those possessing a high IQ may commonly experience anxiety about making the boss look bad, frustration at being under-utilized or guilt from feelings of superiority. Social interactions are equally painful—small talk results in boredom, and when a personal interest or opinion is launched, it often crashes in awkward silence. Worst of all, since it is not commonly acceptable to complain about the challenges that often accompany a high IQ, these difficulties are usually endured in silence.
Sound like someone you know? Perhaps it sounds like you.
Join us on Saturday, November 18, when our guest will be Dr. Betz King, a psychotherapist who specializes in teaching Emotional Intelligence (or EQ), which encompasses the ability to recognize, manage and control one’s feelings, empathize with others’ feelings and maintain satisfactory, interpersonal relationships. According to King, while high IQ balanced with EQ can improve quality of life significantly, it is a frequently under-utilized skill set in people with a high IQ.
Come and explore the reasons why, despite the public perception that having a high IQ guarantees a life of ease and success, some of us never the less falter in our professional endeavors or interpersonal relationships.
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