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The Art of Being
Smart a
Mensan Dilemna
by Harley Berger, Vice-President
Some people have lots of
book smarts but no people smarts; others are just
the opposite. Society makes
provisions for those among us who are shy of intellect, but barely
recognizes the challenges that arise from being above average. Consider
the workplace, where those possessing a high IQ may commonly experience
anxiety about making the boss look bad, frustration at being
under-utilized, or guilt from feelings of superiority. Social interactions
are equally painful; small talk results in boredom, and when a personal
interest or opinion is launched, it often crashes in awkward silence.
Worst of all, since it is not commonly acceptable to complain about the
challenges that often accompany a high IQ, these difficulties are usually
endured in silence.
Sound like someone you
know? Perhaps it sounds like you…
Join us on Saturday,
November 18, when our guest will be Dr. Betz King, a psychotherapist who
specializes in teaching Emotional Intelligence (or EQ), which encompasses
the ability to recognize, manage and control one’s feelings, empathize
with other’s feelings, and maintain satisfactory interpersonal
relationships. According to Dr. King; while High IQ balanced with EQ can
improve quality of life significantly, it is a frequently under-utilized
skill set in people with a high IQ.
Come and explore the
reasons why, despite the public perception that having a high IQ
guarantees a life of ease and success, some of us never the less falter in
our professional endeavors or interpersonal relationships.
Doors
open at 7:00 p.m. for mingling with your fellow Mensans. The program
starts at 8:00.
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This is not a program of Northwest Unitarian
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